JUST FRIENDS

Whether you're talking, dating, or in a committed relationship. People seem to want to overlook those Red Flags and then wonder down the road "why didn't it work out?"

Man and woman divided by actions

• If for some reason a guy doesn't feel a need to make you a part of his "friendship." (You need to question what his true objective is for maintaining the friendship with her.)
• When a guy keeps a relationship with a female friend a secret. (What does he have to hide if he's hiding friendships from you?)
• Any guy getting texts by other single women in the middle of night (non family) while you are laying next to him and don't know the woman.
• Any man that has to hide his phone to check it either around you or take it with him. (You really need to realize this is not the heart of sincerity.)
• If he doesn’t want anyone else knowing he's with you, he'll make excuses to keep whoever from knowing as long as you let it go on.
• When a guy starts discussing your problems with his female friend instead of you, careful this can cross some lines. (We have the common sense to know when a friendship has crossed the line and becomes more than “just friends.”)
• A guy who wants to be with you makes you a priority. When you're only an option, he'll get around to you maybe.
• If he's ignoring his obligations to you, but giving a 100% to his female friend. (He is showing he's not capable of drawing a line. This is an indicator of an affair.)
• Emotional and mental affairs can develop into something far more serious by a guy that sees nothing wrong with the signals he's putting out.
• Whether it's an emotional, mental or physical attachment a guy has created outside your relationship, he doesn't respect you if he doesn't care how you feel about it.
• When a guy turns to another woman, he is looking for excitement, drama, or anything that he feels is missing in your relationship instead of putting his efforts into you.
• FACEBOOK STATUS can be personal discretion but SINGLE, complicated, or separated status also declares to any willing eyes roaming his profile that he is an available man.
• ROUGHLY 80% OF UNFAITHFULNESS OF LATE STARTED OUT AS "JUST FRIENDS."
• Good guys with good intentions are straying and betraying not only their partners but their personal beliefs and moral values.
• If a guy cannot establish clear boundaries between a platonic and romantic feelings, he is creating opportunities in friendships, work relationships, and social media.
• MORE THAN HALF OF ALL MEN HAVING AFFAIRS THEY MET AT WORK.
• Secret emotional intimacy is the first warning sign of impending betrayal. (Innocent "Just Friends" or a slippery slope to betrayal?)
• A guy cannot prevent an affair if he does not exercise appropriate boundaries with other women.
• Unless you find out what you need to know, the betrayal will remain an open wound in your relationship. (If he refuses to be honest, the only integrity he is showing is to his affair partner. You have every reason to doubt him.)

• Is it possible to just be friends? Of course! But when sin entered the world, faithfulness became a choice.

Cheating can fall into three categories. 
1) The Dishonest

Lying: This involves intentionally providing false information or misleading one's partner. It can include telling outright lies, fabricating stories, or omitting important details to deceive the other person.

2) Secret-Keeping

Secret-keeping: This category encompasses withholding information or keeping secrets from one's partner. It may involve hiding certain actions, interactions, or aspects of one's life that should be shared within the context of the relationship.

3) Infidelity

Infidelity: Infidelity is a form of dishonesty in which one partner engages in romantic or sexual activities with someone outside of the committed relationship, without the knowledge or consent of their partner.

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